Virginity is a social contruct

Virginity:

  • is sexist
  • is heteronormative
  • commodifies sex
  • commodifies young cis-het white women
  • contributes to rape culture
  • contributes to slut-shaming
  • erases queer folk
  • erases transfolk
  • frames a woman’s worth as inversely proportional to the number of dicks that have been inside her

Thank you “glasscoffin”.

Caring too much.

I suppose when you go too fast you lose track of what is really going on. You fail to notice the facts and you only see what you want to see. Now, maybe not all of it is wrong and even maybe it’s not wrong at all… I think that’s something that people fail to notice. Just because something happens between two people, it doesn’t mean anyone is wrong or even that they did anything wrong. Sometimes things just happen. That is completely normal. Look at yourself and ask “Am I happy?” That is the only question you should ask if you need to know if where you are is where you are supposed to be. Fuck everyone else, they never stay around long anyway.

Then rises the question… “What if I am happy, but they break my heart?” No one, and I mean no one can break you if you don’t let them. Easier said than done, I know. Take your time to cry and to get pissed and then stop. Stop and turn around. Raise that chin up and turn that head forward and move on to bigger and better things. Life has a lot of surprises, but you won’t get to them if you continue to hold yourself back over one person. Especially when there are over billions of others all around the world.